There is a TIME and PLACE to Twerk

Kevin Kelley a lawyer and owner of a black owned family friendly restaurant in Dallas, TX called True Kitchen And Kocktails does not want women to Twerk in his restaurant. There was an incident in his restaurant where some women started dancing on tables and chairs in the restaurant when the DJ played a rap Twerk song. According to some, he was slut shaming these women.

Black women and men want to bring their animalistic ways with them wherever they go. At the same time — black restaurant owners want to play Twerk inspired music and expect black women and men not to Twerk and shake their behinds.

Earlier this year, Diddy played Twerking music while on Instagram Live with that big whale singer that Twerks all the time. Well guess what she did when the Twerk music came on? She began Twerking. Diddy got upset and said stop, stop, stop this is a family friendly show. Diddy was accused of “slut shaming” as well. If the intent is family friendly the music has to match.

The music has to match the environment you want to achieve. If you intend for your black owned restaurant to be family friendly and Twerk free — don’t play the music that will induce twerking. Black people are usually the ones Twerking. As a black man, he should be well aware of the music he plays.

That’s why I do not listen to RAP MUSIC. People like to defend rap music from violent rap music to sexual twerk rap music — saying things like,

“Music has no effect on BEHAVIOR, It’s…