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I won’t be having any children

Brandi NoBarExam West
2 min readMay 6, 2020

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I’m not going to give this burdensome world to anybody else

It’s cruel to have children. Life is too much and requires to much work. If everybody had this mindset the world would be a better place. I don’t care about being alone. Most people have children for selfish reasons. Like self-preservation. I don’t need anything in the world that looks like me. I don’t need my genes to go on.

I don’t care about dying alone in old age

Hopefully, I don’t make it to old age. I genuinely don’t want to live that long. I don’t know why so many people want kids and think they should have them. I just realize none of this really matters. Life doesn’t matter. Nothing matters. We are just here pretending that things matter. Everything in this world is a made up concept. I don’t buy into it. I don’t see how others buy into it.

I just don’t care. I don’t want a family

I don’t want kids. I would be a horrible mother. I don’t see myself nurturing anyone. I have a stone cold soul. Men control nearly everything, but women have to birth they ass. I won’t be giving anyone life. Fuck life. Women give birth and have to struggle. I’m not going through all that just struggle at the end. There are no rewards for being a mother. I don’t know why women aspire to be mothers. Sure it looks fun and babies are cute and you can dress them up. But that’s it — and I am not persuaded to give anyone life.

People do not think before having children

Should I even have a child? Will I be a good parent? Can I afford a child? I’ve been pregnant before and these things didn’t cross my mind. Most people are just thinking they are in love and they just have sex not thinking about the consequences. I’m glad I’m able to think now. I’m also glad I didn’t have any children earlier in my life without any thought process.

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