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I Cannot Talk To This Dude Anymore

Brandi NoBarExam West
2 min readAug 23, 2020

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I Just Realized I Cannot Talk To This Dude Anymore.

Why should I give a guy the time of day that didn’t help me when I was down? That’s not going to happen. I have to remember to discontinue relationships with people who did not help me when I was fucked up.

I was homeless living in my car last year. I couldn’t get $20 from various people. This guy in particular who wouldn’t send me any money or offer me to live with him hit me up for some pussy. I told him I would come. But ended up not going. I wasn’t in the mood. So recently he asked me again. I told him I’d come when I have a way. I’m about 2 1/2 hours from him. My car is fucked up. But now I’m thinking to myself, this guy didn’t even send me no money when I was homeless and hungry, so I’m not giving him and nobody else no pussy.

The same energy people gave me, I am going to give to them. People should help people because when they bounce back and you didn’t help them, they will be done with you. I’m not going to cut people off completely because I want people to see me boss all the way up, but — sexually and emotionally? Absolutely. I am not flirting, entertaining flirting, or give any impression I’m available, single, or have any interest in them sexually. I’m going to decrease my texting and communication with the people who did not help me.

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